WHY DO BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE?

Life’s greatest secret revealed…………………….

DON’T YOU JUST HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TALK ABOUT YOU BEHIND YOUR BACK?  AND WHEN YOU UNEXPECTEDLY APPEAR ON THE SCENE THEY CHANGE THE SUBJECT – BUT NO ONE CAN LOOK YOU IN THE EYE

  • YOU KNOW YOU HAVE BEEN DISCUSSED.
  • YOU ARE SURE IT WAS IN AN UNKIND FASHION
  • YOU ARE EMBARRASSED FOR THEM AND FOR YOURSELF
  • YOU ARE UNSURE HOW TO ACT OR WHAT TO SAY
  • YOU FEEL YOUR SELF-ESTEEM TAKING A PLUNGE
  • YOU WONDER WHAT WAS SAID – HOW BAD WAS IT?
  • YOU FEEL BETRAYED AND DISLIKED BY THEM
  • YOU THINK ABOUT IT FOR THE REST OF THE WEEK
  • YOU FEEL HURT AND YOU START AVOIDING THEM

THEN IT OCCURS TO YOU THAT YOU HAVE DONE THE SAME TO OTHERS BEFORE ………………………..

BETRAYAL – Why do these things happen? I can explain it. It will take you back up the page in the end and you too will understand it.

THE MOST WELL KEPT SECRET

Life wants to reward us for every good thing we do – it’s like a Universal Savings Account where points for our good deeds are deposited and added up every now and then.  We receive payment in the form of good or great things happening to us. Things that we cannot achieve in the natural world, even if we tried hard.

Many times these good or great things come unexpectedly – like a compliment from someone you really admire, or someone you thought had not noticed you, suddenly invites you to their party. The bicycle you dreamed of shows up from the most unlikely source or someone sends you money out of the blue. As an adult, you may land yourself the most enviable and well-paying job – or get a promotion you did not expect. Sometimes things can be so great as to be miraculous, other times they are just little things that make your life easier or happier.

But here’s the deal. Every time you badmouth someone, gossip about someone maliciously or spitefully, (deliberately harmful) life takes back her gifts. The thing you need the most does not arrive. The frustrations in your life doesn’t let up. It is as if the heavens have conspired against you and you remain frustrated. Nothing seems to go your way. The credit balance in your points account has vanished into thin air.

All you have to do is to remember the last time you deliberately and maliciously gossiped about or badmouthed someone and you will clearly see why you are suddenly so stuck and why nothing seems to work out for you.

Try this for a few months and see how your life changes dramatically – then see.

People often ask me (as if I am the sole authority) “Why do bad things happen to good people?”

Well, I concluded that the ‘Good’ people also partake in malicious gossip, and similarly suffer just like bad people reap what they sow.

“Apparently” Good people are sometimes more malicious than “obvious” bad people. They just hide it better behind a facade of goodness. Now that you know, please tell others also – let us help ourselves to heal a very sick planet and get rid of unkindness so that we may benefit from the Universal gifts.

WE ARE ALL CONNECTED – WE NEED TO SEE THAT. When we speak ill into the lives of others IT AFFECTS US TOO.

Bad things have happened to me too, and for the same reasons.

I wasn’t always an Angel, you know!

Faithfully your friend

Thandi

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